7 Fool-Proof Ways to Romanticize Motherhood on a Budget Nathania, March 19, 2023October 11, 2023 Ya can’t sit in two chairs with one butt!Now you might be side eyeing me for starting the blog post like that, but hear me out. You’ll understand before you finish that last paragraph.Let’s start off by saying if you’re here then you’re definitely a mom, and probably already know a bit about romanticizing life. If not, check out this blog post before coming back to this one all about the beginning concepts of romanticizing motherhood. Once we’ve got the basics out of the way, let’s get into how you can romanticize motherhood on a major budget! Use Reward Programs for Everything you BuyPretty much every store you shop at has some kind of rewards program. If you’re shopping online, make sure you look for deals and coupons. Download honey on your web browser, and feed your shopping addiction from there to get access to the best deals.If you’re shopping in person, ask a sales rep or cashier about rewards programs and coupon options. If they don’t have any, try a store that does. Remind yourself that it’s okay to not buy everything you like. Everything is not meant for you and that is okay. This world literally has so many options for you to explore, so find something that still feels right and doesn’t budge the budget.Find your SanctuaryPart of romanticizing your life is prioritizing your self care. Whether it’s your bedroom, the library, a local cafe, or a freaking closet that you hide from your kids in when they’ve had too much sugar… you should have a safe space for you to feel comfortable in, for FREE. Go there whenever you need to reset your mind and journal or plan for the upcoming week. Download Apps that Tell You About Free Local EventsI love using groupon to find local events that I can take my toddler to at a discounted price. It will usually have more options if you live in a major city, but give it a try regardless of where you live. It’s also worth it to look into facebook groups that are specific to your location. There’s a facebook group I used to be in from my old neighborhood called Park Slope Together, and people always shared local deals on events and even shopping centers. They regularly arranged meetups and it was a great way to meet people. pexels.com – kampus-productionDate at Home (Solo + Romantic)Date nights are fun because they really allow you to be creative and create custom scenarios that will help spice things up in your life, but on a budget. After bedtime feel free to get dressed up for a movie marathon, play board games while getting wine drunk, make smores in your pjs… Spend Time in NatureThis does not have to mean going camping with mosquitos and bears. By all means, if camping is your thing, go for it. Have a great time, take lots of photos and remember to take in all the scenary around you. But if you’re not into camping, that’s okay. A day at the beach sitting under an umbrella or riding the waves of the ocean are some of the most soothing experiences I’ve ever had in my life. You can also have a picnic at a pier, go hiking, or even swing as high as you can on a swing set just like when you were a kid. DIY a Family Photo Album (& Clear Out That Storage on Your Phone)Creating a family photo album is a great way to capture and cherish special memories. You can use a photo album or create a digital album. It’s an affordable way to document your family’s journey and create a lasting legacy.pexels.comStart a Journal of Love Letters To Your ChildrenWriting letters to your children is a meaningful way to express your love and create a lasting bond. You can write about your favorite memories, your hopes and dreams for them, or just share your love and gratitude. It’s a special and affordable way to create a lasting connection with your children.Make Mealtimes SpecialMealtime is a great opportunity to bond with your family and create lasting memories. You can make mealtime special by cooking together, having a picnic in the park, or creating a themed dinner night. You, yourself can also add a little extra liveliness to mealtimes, by eating with your good dishes. Drink that cup of kool-aid out the wine glass. Go on ahead and put the leftover popeyes on those fancy plates you only ever bust out when company comes over. There doesn’t need to be a special occasion. Mama, you are the occasion. Have a Family Game NightGame night is a fun and affordable way to spend quality time with your family. Some of my fondest family memories from my childhood is playing games with my family. My mom would be super competitive while my sisters and I all ganged up on her as a united front. We would spend entire days running through games of uno, monopoly, spit, BS, goldfish, etc.It allowed us to bond and once we were done it was easy to take a step back and realize how lucky we all were to have each other. pexels-william-fortunatoAll in allMotherhood is a beautiful journey, but it’s essential to find ways to romanticize your life, even on a budget. These tips are simple, affordable, and effective ways to connect with your family, create special memories, and take care of yourself. Remember, the most important thing is to cherish the time you have with your family and create a loving and supportive environment for your children to thrive in.If you want to learn more, feel free to check out this post about why romanticizing your life WILL improve your mental health. Motherhood